Definitely not laser at this stage. I doubt if hair is the problem but you may prove me wrong with your condom idea which is a good one. I would wonder about a mild mixed bacterial vaginitis and would think a course of Flagyl applied topically would be worth while. Good luck!
Flagyl is not a topical anesthetic. It is a broad spectrum antimicrobial. Yes, a topical anesthetic would be a terrible idea for the reasons you mention.
Thank you very much for your response. I looked up Flagyl and saw that it's a topical anesthetic. It may suppress the pain but what about the bleeding due to the pain? It seems to me that it is not addressing the cause but rather masking it and if I keep having intercourse with Flagyl, I would end up very bruised up, no?