Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

NEED ADVICE ASAP

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years and we've had unprotected sex a few times and nothing has happen because he pulled out. Yes I know pre-*** is a thing and it can get you pregnant I'm not asking for a lecture on anything I'm just kindly asking for advice. But last night we had sex and he pulled out and finished but then wiped everything off his penis and around it. We had sat there and talked for about 20-25 minutes and began to have sex again, he also pulled out the second time and finished.... Is there a chance I could be pregnant? I've heard air kills sperm but I don't know how true that is. I've seen yes I could be and then I've also seen no I'm fine. Please help me out because I need to decide if I just want to wait and see if I start my period Tuesday or if I want to go get the plan B pill.

Thanks!!
2 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
134578 tn?1693250592
In short, if you are CERTAIN your period is coming in two days, you should be fine and would not need Plan B because you weren't ovulating.  If there is any chance that you wouldn't be getting your period (in other words, if your cycles are ever irregular) then Plan B might be a choice.
Helpful - 0
134578 tn?1693250592
If your period is due in two days, you are unlikely to be ovulating now.  That timing is what would be likely to keep you from being pregnant, not your boyfriend wiping off his penis.

Your boyfriend wiping himself off makes no difference because he ejaculated, and that left sperm in his urethra.  The next erection he got produced pre-ejaculatory fluid in which the sperm from that last ejaculation hitched a ride into your body.

If many hours had elapsed between his last ejaculation and his next erection, and perhaps if he had used the loo a few times, it would be likely that he would no longer have any sperm in his urethra.  But in this situation, there was pretty much a certainty that his pre-ejaculate contained sperm.

If your cycles are regular and if you really know for sure that your period will come two days from now, you should be safe because women don't ovulate two days before their period.  But the approach you two are taking to having sex, sooner or later something will not work ... either you will not in fact ovulate when you thought, or he will do that wiping thing and it won't do any good at all and it will be at a time when you're fertile.  Why not get on the pill or get an IUD?

Helpful - 0

You are reading content posted in the Women's Choice Community

Top Women's Health Answerers
Learn About Top Answerers
Popular Resources
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Normal vaginal discharge varies in color, smell, texture and amount.
Bumps in the genital area might be STDs, but are usually not serious.
Chlamydia, an STI, often has no symptoms, but must be treated.
From skin changes to weight loss to unusual bleeding, here are 15 cancer warning signs that women tend to ignore.