Help pregnant again!

[ana41615]

Okay so I'm 20 I already have a son who's going to be 1year old in a few short weeks .I got this new boyfriend we are getting married . I'm only 2 days late and took a pregnancy test very faint line . But anyways he doesn't want a baby because we are just starting out life and he said with a baby on the way it's going to be harder but I can't live with myself killing a life. I'm 20 he's 21 . I'm so confused

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Well, that's hard if you don't believe in abortion and that is what he wants you to do.  Ultimately, you get to decide.  I will say that in reality, this may doom the relationship because it does indeed make things much harder to have a child when just starting out.  brings lots of stress and stress can dissolve a relationship that is just establishing.  However, it can definitely also bring couples closer together.  So, time will tell what happens with yours.  Just don't lose sight of your goals and stay emotionally intimate and close with your partner.  good luck hon

[Miyu19]

You guys should've been using something if he didn't want a baby right away and both knew that.

What's done is done. Don't let him push you into an abortion because it can eat away at you from what I've seen. If he truly loves and cares for you, he won't and you two can have the baby. You already have one child, another one won't be so bad. I don't know your financial situation but if you aren't working, you might need to do something on the side if you don't have a babysitter.

Wait it out, maybe the pregnancy might be chemical or not stick before stressing too much

[KitoBabies]

If yu are pregnant he has no choice if he wants to be with yu. Why have unprotected sex even with yur mate and dont wanna deal with what comes with it.