I'm the one struggling with the fact of 8 children not him because of the fact he doesn't do anything he feels like its not hard. I'm very angry and agitated I don't feel like i can continue to talk to him about the same things my obgyn seem to think it depression so hopefully that's all it is and i can be happy again when the baby is born
Holy cow- you have 8 kids?? Wow. Sure he's not avoiding helping because he wasn't sure about so many kids? Was he in on the decision to have such a big family? Only asking because the chaos 8 kids could bring would be overwhelming. If someone wasn't thrilled about it, they might avoid it. So talk to him. Rather than bring agitated, try to open up to his emotions. Even if he was into having so many babies too, it's a lot of pressure with a lot of worry. He may be really stressed. So talk to him and try to walk in his shoes so that you can then be heard for how you feel and get on the same page. Good luck