My grandson when he was 10yrs old and my granddaughter was 5, unknown to me were touching each other. I never found out till recently, that it became more. The grandson is now 18 and granddaughter 14. Granddaughters father want to have grandson arrested for rape. We, the grandparents found out about this a few days ago. There has never been any other incidents since this happened. What are we suppose to think as grandparents? We feel horrible for our granddaughter, and the now 18 yr. old. We are in the middle. I would like some input on this situation. If the now 18yr old is convicted of this, he will no longer be a part of our family. Is it normal for kids the age they were when all of this may have happened to be normal actions of kids to explore? We also have been raising the 18 yr. old. He's still in school. We are so stuck emotionally in the middle of this. Our granddaughter is our world also. Please help