I would be concerned about stopping meds or going against what your Dr. recommends. My son has seizures but his are not obvious his show up in the form of being spaced out or clumpey he will just stare off to the side sometimes only for a brief time. The seizures also showed up the in form of behavioral issues (due to the area of the brain he has them). Since his were not so obvious to the untrained eye he was not diagnosed for several years after the onset of symptoms. The day he had his EEG he seemed to me to be having a good day I even asked to EEG tech if we should have the EEG when he is doing so well. I was afraid of having an inaccurate test. The results came back with 4 seizures in 40 minutes. I never would have guessed. This is how suttle the symptoms can be.
I have not reviewed these EEG's or your daughter's examination and records, and cannot provide accurate advice over the internet. Both EEG's have demonstrated seizure patterns and abnormal activity in the posterior region in the right side of the brain. There is no difference in the interpretation of these abnormalities between the two studies. You state that your daughter is not having seizures, but I would want to know about subtle seizures such as staring spells or periods of inactivity. Based on these EEG's alone I would recommend treatment for a period of time, or more prolonged EEG monitoring to determine if she is having subtle seizures. If you still are concerned about treatment, perhaps a second opinion with a pediatric epileptologist would be reasonable. If you are in the area we have 4 wonderful pediatric epilepsy doctors. Good luck.