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Miscarriage

Started spotting yesterday and then heavy bleeding with bad cramping today. Went to the Dr. And just that fast, I miscarried. I'm so upset. I didn't do anything wrong. I was very careful once I found out I was pregnant. My fiance and I REALLY wanted this baby, it took us 4 years to even get pregnant. I just need to rant and cry. Why is life so unfair? I know I was only 7 weeks. But that baby was wanted more than ANYTHING. I want to get on birth control and just give up but my husband is totally against it. And he's making it seem like it's my fault that this happened. I'm just done getting my hopes up. I'm done feeling disappointed. :(
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Hey girl... I had 3 miscarriages all around 6 to 9 weeks of pregnancy. I totally gave up. There is hope. Im now 38 weeks pregnant! Dont give up. Stay positive
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. And it's definitely not your fault! Nature can be so cruel sometimes :(
Excuse your husband with that he's unfair bcs he's sad. He should be there for you instead of blaming you, but he's just human. Let him for a while, but later talk to him clearly about this.
I pray for you that one day you'll have the baby you're dreaming of!
Miscarriage happens to so many women. It's not your fault. Don't blame yourself!
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Thank you I really needed to hear that
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I also just had a miscarriage...
Don't give up, I won't either. You'll have a beautiful baby and be very very happy!
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