I'm 3 yrs post hysterectomy, My gyno retired. Where do I turn to for help? .

[KremeBrulee]

I've been living in profound and debilitating sadness.
Over the last 3 yrs I have been to countless Dr appts, trying to figure out what is wrong with me. Not a single one has questioned my hormone health since that hysterectomy. Please help me! My marriage is in jeopardy. I changed gradually , And I didn't even realize it.
I've changed so much since my total hysterectomy. I kept my ovaries. Over the course of three years, I have withdrawn from my family and husband. I have zero desire to be intimate. I gained 100lbs. I have extreme low self esteem now. I just want to be alone. I didn't realize what was happening with me. I knew I was suffering some depression, but hadn't realized, that it very well may be hormonal and environmental. My hubby has also been going through traumatic health issues. And watching him decline has done a number on me. Who do I go to for help? Are there any home remedies or supplements I can take?

[old_before_my_time]

I'm so sorry you're suffering! I can sooo relate to your feelings of loss and reclusiveness! I had an unwarranted hysterectomy with ovary removal and my whole world fell apart. For me though it was almost immediate and extreme. It felt as if my heart and soul were ripped out and I became an empty shell. The rapid aging in appearance and brain effects were the worst - suicidal depression and horrific loss of memory and ability to think and focus. But there were many other negative effects.

Although hysterectomy oftentimes causes the ovaries to shut down or produce fewer hormones hence explaining at least some of the after effects, the uterus evidently plays a role too in our physiology and personality.

Weight gain is a common after effect of hysterectomy. According to the HERS Foundation, women typically gain 25 lbs. in the first year.

Have you considered trying hormones - estrogen and/or testosterone? There are also over-the-counter menopausal supplements such as black cohosh that may help. I personally could not function until I got enough estrogen into my system. I don't think I'd want to be without it. But it's a personal choice to be made after researching the risks and benefits. The ovaries of intact women produce hormones their whole lives for good health. Women whose ovaries have been removed or are impaired by hysterectomy do not produce as many hormones as naturally menopausal women (Rancho Bernardo study).

I hope you can find the help you need.