Hocd or denial?

[Wookie101]

For the past few months of my life I have been stressing the idea I might be lesbian or bi. My whole life I loved boys and always had crushes on them and still do. This started happening when I was watching some YouTube vids. At the side where there are more videos to look at I looked at a girl and was thinking to myself, she is good looking! And that really scared me because I never had thought that way. I don't want to be with a girl and I am scared one day I will be lesbian or bi. I have always supported the LGBT community,And believed you should love who you want. So than why would I care if I am lesbian or bi? I am a worry wort and get panic attacks a lot, over things that will never happen. These thoughts make me depressed and worried. I know I should talk to some one but its hard for me. I have these thoughts every day for hours. Some times they go away but they always come back. I sighed up for MedHelp because I want some one to relate to and help!

[mammo]

It's normal for one female to find another one attractive, if someone is pretty...she's pretty.  They say women don't dress for men but for other women but that doesn't make them bi or  a lesbian.  I feel you are putting way too much thought into this as it means nothing.  Just get on with your life because you will find yourself thinking other women are attractive all of your life as this is where we get most of our make-up ideas, hair style/color ideas and clothing ideas.  Just relax and don't let this one thing do his to you.  Get on with your life and listen to your friends I know they comment when they see a girl who is really cute or has pretty hair etc.  I hope this helps and take care.

[Jack123_]

Hey listen up how about u give me your facebook id or something we'll disscus about it over there i also have a severe form of hocd

[Wookie101]

I really want answers I am scared. I don't want to like girls I want to like guys.  I am starting to think I am in denial, I really don't want to be lesbian or bi! I am really scared I am in denial or just not noticing I am lesbian/bi. What do you think. I want some help from all of you!