When I was around 6 or 7 years old, my brother had locked me in my room and wouldn’t let me leave until I let him see my breasts. I kept telling him no and he kept making deals with me saying he wasn’t going to touch them and that it only had to be for a second. I finally got tired of saying no so I said fine but only for a second. I then lifted up my shirt and he grabbed onto me, pulling me to him and started feeling me up. I told him to leave and then I started crying. After that, I was in my parents room playing with him and he pushed me onto the bed and tried to finger me. I had a dress on so it was easier for him to do it and when I jumped up, he asked if I liked it. Obviously I said no, but it didn’t stop there. He would constantly touch me and feel me up and I never told. He would tell me to pretend I was his girlfriend and then want me to give him a handjob or let him do something to me. This had made me not feel comfortable with myself and I have a low self esteem. I’ve also gotten into a serious relationship recently and he wants to go further and so do I, but the first time he touched my boob, I started crying because it made me remember what happened with my brother. It doesn’t bother me when my boyfriend touches me like that anymore but like I said, he wants to go further and I’m terrified. I don’t want to feel like I have no control over my body or that I’m being forced into something that I’m not ready for. At such a young age, my innocence was taken away from me by someone I was supposed to be able to trust. Now I can’t even enjoy myself with my partner without feeling like it’s going to happen again. I can’t trust men anymore. I told my brother about what he did to me but he said he didn’t remember and said he was sorry but I honestly don’t believe him. Like how could something that he did hurt me SO MUCH and him not even remember it happening. I just want him to feel as hurt as I do but I also want to be able to do things with my partner without having to think about all of this. I need advice. What do I do? I want to be able to enjoy myself with my boyfriend.