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My boyfriend of almost 13 years is accusing me of cheating on him
It started about a year ago he started accusing me of cheating and he literally says I’m lying every time I go somewhere he calls me a ***** and other names. He says that I’m talking and sleeping with literally everyone I have never cheated on him. I have to be careful because everything I do he makes into a big deal and I’m now at the point I have no choice but to leave if I don’t he’s going to ruin my life.
Tbh this doesn't seem like an overly jealous guy. This looks like severely delusional behavior. If you can convince him, maybe make him see a doctor or a therapist. Justifying yourself all the time can be exhausting and pressure can be life changing. If he continues this way maybe its time to end the relationship. It seems like a huge step, and is definitely hard after such long period of time but trust me it will be refreshing and lighter than constantly being smothered by someone.
Be careful. sometimes guys like that turn into stalkers, and sometimes it gets dangerous. Call a Women's Crisis Center hotline and explain what is happening and ask how to get away safely.
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