Nothing that you describe puts at you risk of contracting HIV.
Below are the three potential risk for HIV
1. Unprotected penetrative anal or vaginal sex.
2. PWID - Needle sharing.
3. Transmission through blood transfusion. (This is rare as most blood products and blood transfusion are subjected to preliminary screening.)
Oral sex is not a risk. Get off the internet, stop looking for 'HIV'. You didn't have a risk, do not need to test.
Always use condoms correctly and consistently for vaginal / anal sex to stay away from STIs.