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I am unable to get rid of any of my sexual symptoms
Hi, everyone. I really feel annoyed because I have been experiencing sexual problems for years despite being 25 years old and they are still there. I recently went to my GP because of this and I was prescribed antidepressants (pretend not to be surprised) because I am low in mood and that sort of things. Yeah, fine... but that doesn't work and side effects are terrible. Nothing changed at all. My problem is that it seems that I've lost a bit of sensitivity in the penis, because when I was OK, even with my penis in flaccid state I felt something strong. I don't know if this has something to do with the prostate.
I'm able to reach orgasm, even despite the fact that the strength of my penis is always a joke and I don't get a decent erection for years, in any situation, never. Maybe some night erections sometimes, but I never reached a decent erection by my side. It feels quite terrible. No pain at all, that's the only good thing. The ejaculation is always really weak, so the semen doesn't go straight... it just fall down, so my penis looks like it is dribbling. I don't have that strength in those muscles that I used to had.
The thing is that one day I tried to press between the scrotum and the anus, more precisely immediately after the testicles, and suddenly I started to feel a lot while I was pressing, until it disappeared like 5 minutes later. I tried that in several more occassions, but it didn't work anymore. I don't understand what's going on. All the people I ask, always answer with the same thing "that's psycological. You must be feared of girls. You just need to not to worry about that... you will do it very well with girls" but, you know what?... I don't have fears about that, I never get a proper erection in any situation but yeah... it's all about my head and just taking antidepressants makes it go away. Problem fixed.
Some time ago, I tried the magnificent, outstanding, incredible and excellent Kegel exercises. The only thing that changed is that, when I do them, I get the sensation that I need to go to the toilet urgently. No improvements in sensitivity nor in terms of ejaculation strength. I don't think it's about strength of those muscles, because when I twitch them, I'm able to do it with power. I was thinking the possibility that it was due to a bad placement of the prostate or something like that, because of the relief of the symptoms when I pressed near the prostate that time.
I also feel that my penis is shorter and narrower than it used to be. I'm almost sure that I don't have Peyronie because I don't feel anything hard and the curvature is fine. The thing that I'm most worried about is that loss of sensitivity. It looks like my penis and all the organs are lower than they should be, or something like that. The last months, I changed my lifestyle, but I didn't feel any change at all. It's really weird. I swear that I don't understand what happens to me and what to do. Whatever I do, I always feel exactly the same. My symptoms never change, nothing, even if I'm happy or sad or whatever.
I'm able to reach orgasm, even despite the fact that the strength of my penis is always a joke and I don't get a decent erection for years, in any situation, never. Maybe some night erections sometimes, but I never reached a decent erection by my side. It feels quite terrible. No pain at all, that's the only good thing. The ejaculation is always really weak, so the semen doesn't go straight... it just fall down, so my penis looks like it is dribbling. I don't have that strength in those muscles that I used to had.
The thing is that one day I tried to press between the scrotum and the anus, more precisely immediately after the testicles, and suddenly I started to feel a lot while I was pressing, until it disappeared like 5 minutes later. I tried that in several more occassions, but it didn't work anymore. I don't understand what's going on. All the people I ask, always answer with the same thing "that's psycological. You must be feared of girls. You just need to not to worry about that... you will do it very well with girls" but, you know what?... I don't have fears about that, I never get a proper erection in any situation but yeah... it's all about my head and just taking antidepressants makes it go away. Problem fixed.
Some time ago, I tried the magnificent, outstanding, incredible and excellent Kegel exercises. The only thing that changed is that, when I do them, I get the sensation that I need to go to the toilet urgently. No improvements in sensitivity nor in terms of ejaculation strength. I don't think it's about strength of those muscles, because when I twitch them, I'm able to do it with power. I was thinking the possibility that it was due to a bad placement of the prostate or something like that, because of the relief of the symptoms when I pressed near the prostate that time.
I also feel that my penis is shorter and narrower than it used to be. I'm almost sure that I don't have Peyronie because I don't feel anything hard and the curvature is fine. The thing that I'm most worried about is that loss of sensitivity. It looks like my penis and all the organs are lower than they should be, or something like that. The last months, I changed my lifestyle, but I didn't feel any change at all. It's really weird. I swear that I don't understand what happens to me and what to do. Whatever I do, I always feel exactly the same. My symptoms never change, nothing, even if I'm happy or sad or whatever.
You definitely need to see a Urologist, preferably one who specializes in sexual dysfunction. There seems to be a lot going on here, and I don’t think a reg Dr prescribing anti-depressants is the answer.
Since you say you can’t get decent erections under any circumstances, I don’t believe this is psychological in nature, there has to be something physical going on. I think the Uro would first want to run some tests to determine things like hormone levels, blood pressure & circulation - arterial blockage often first shows up in the tiny blood vessels of the penis, being very small, they are easily blocked. He or she will also check the prostate, which can definitely affect erections if things aren’t functioning right. Try to get a referral to a good Urologist, maybe your reg Dr can refer you, but also ask around. Hope you can get some answers & get back to normal functioning…
Since you say you can’t get decent erections under any circumstances, I don’t believe this is psychological in nature, there has to be something physical going on. I think the Uro would first want to run some tests to determine things like hormone levels, blood pressure & circulation - arterial blockage often first shows up in the tiny blood vessels of the penis, being very small, they are easily blocked. He or she will also check the prostate, which can definitely affect erections if things aren’t functioning right. Try to get a referral to a good Urologist, maybe your reg Dr can refer you, but also ask around. Hope you can get some answers & get back to normal functioning…
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