i dont think she is jealous, i think she truly needed you and to be honest if he loved you he would have stayed, he wouldnt have packed up and left. think about your child, this is not her fault that he left, and if you blame her she will sense this.....
this is on him, you are her mother and need to go to her no matter what even if it is nothing. my kids at night sometimes say they see things and i know they dont they are just trying to stay up longer, but i go in hteir rooms and look everywhere, and say nope all gone all good, read a book and then put htem in bed and all is good. so in conclusion, no matter what this is not your daughters fault, it is all on him........
Behaviour charts can work. It is not a wast of money. But, not everything works with every child. I have learned this. It really depends on the personality and motivation of the child. They actually have worked in the past for me and they work well for children that I work with. But, Ona, you don;t have to buy. Simply make one or find them on the internet. What costs is the reward at the end. But, a small toy or outing works fine. The super nanny's website has many to choose from.
Tara94
Yeah but, to a certain degree children have a way of manipulating a situation into their favor. Your daughter knows that you love her and that she is the most important thing to you. They take that and run with it and expect for you to feel gulty because you need another relationship on another level with someone else besides them. Atleast that is the way that it feels for me right now. I just don't know how to take her.. it's almost like mood swings she likes him and wants him around when it's convenient for her and life just doesn't work that way.
That is funny that you mention the behavior chart because I was just fixing to go get one for my little girl. Now I am thinking that I will just save my money!
You're more at fault here. You're her mom, and she needs you.
If he was her dad, he would go and comfort her. He isn't - he's some strange guy and he got up and packed his stuff because she needs you.
Good riddance to bad garbage.