This is a terrible thing for anyone to deal with but , sadly, you have absolutely no choice ! Your doctor is doing the right thing by referring you to a gyn/oncologist....not because it is cancer, but because he/she is the most skilled person to perform your surgery ! He is definately doing what is best for you.
Waiting is really hard, but, you will be getting answers soon. Until your surgery, and the biopsy of your mass you will not know if it is malignant or benign....however, 95% - 98% of all tumors are benign.....your odds are great !
Hang in there....post as often as you want to, and, please do keep us posted. Where do you live, anyway? What hospital or clinic are you going to?
Peace.
dian
BREATHE ..... I can only imagine how scary this is for such a young person. You will know much more soon. The MD will run some tests and unfortunately, you will have to wait. Try to think positive .. it will hopefully be a cyst ... annoying ... but a cyst. It can be fixed.
Judy