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OK..It has been to long..Prays Needed!

Apr 29, 2014 - 22 comments

I have a friend who I have known for many Years now..He is the father of one of my best Friends Kids. He has been going to meetings for Years & Years, but does not seem to get all the way clean..he keeps doing the Merry-go-round..Well he does have some Mental issues that he does not think he does or will not get the right help for..He is extremely Depressed and Paranoid. He kept on talking about going into Treatment but he needed someone to watch his house and animals..WELL he has been MIA for over a month now..We have been going up to his house and feeding the cats and changing the Box..He left his Door unlocked which he would never do..His Dog is no where to be found. He has Grandchildren that he Baby sets with on certain days..He is always calling my friend (the mother of his children) and never goes more then 2 days with out calling..Everyone in AA/NA is on the look out for him..He was last seen all spun out in someones back yard and they called the cops. By the time the cops got there he was gone..This is NOT like HIM at ALL..The Detective is now involved, but they are not really doing to much about this...I asked them to look at his Bank account and see if there has been any activity on it..Yet they have not down this..WE ALL are at our Wits end on this now..Where is HE??????..He is not in any rehab around here or the states next to us..He is not in any Jail and in the Hospitals..Like I said this is NOT him at all..He is too paranoid to even go away from his home for a night..He thinks people come in and rip him off other then leaving his door open..OMG this is just to much..WE ARE SCARED NOW!!! PLEASE SEND SOME POWER PRAYERS..His name is PHIL..Thank YOU.

PS..That girl that came up to stay with my Mom over a year ago to get Sober just died at the Hospital from Booze!
She was my age, but was one of my Moms best friend..May she RIP with my MOM & DAD & DOG
This Disease is a KILLER in many ways...

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by jugglin, Apr 29, 2014
Oh Vic...I'm so sorry.  How very scary to not know what is going on.  I am saying prayers for Phil and for all of his friends and loved ones who are worried for him and his well-being.
Yes, this disease is a killer and we are remiss if we believe otherwise.  
Thinking about you dear Vic and the emotions this latest loss must bring you.
God bless you sweet Vic. Prayers coming your way!

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by spider6, Apr 29, 2014
Vic, very sorry too hon!  Omg, sending prayers!  Wth man?,!  No words

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by ariley13, Apr 29, 2014
I'm so sorry Vic. Saying a big prayer for Phil and his safe return as well as for you and all of his loved ones. I'm glad you journaled about this. Please take good care of yourself and keep reaching out when you need. to. Keep us updated if you hear any news ok?

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by VICourageous, Apr 30, 2014
Well we talked to the detective and now he is really going to get on it. I told him to go and check out the activity in his account..My Hub says they need a court order..Well I just think if his daughter goes in and says my dad has been missing and I know him well, and this is not like him..If she takes a cop with her they might just be able to tell if the card has just been used as credit..You know when you just swipe the card and sign..**** that happen around here with some people who broke into a bank system and was taking the card number and buying things at Walmarts and other stores way far away. We all had to get new card and they did catch those SOBS!!..BUT if he has it then it will show that he used a pin number to pull some money out. Also his son thought he seen his car at the store, he said it look like the dog blanket in the back..BUT it had Plates on from another county. NOW these are things he would not do!!! Period!! And being as Paranoid about people stealing his things, he would of called his younger son to feed cats, Lock door and keep a eye on his property, He would never leave the door unlocked or leave his brand new Haley and his New 4x4 truck there alone.
Tonight at the meetings I ask them to pray..One guy said he might have just took off to California..NO he has no one down there..He has some family in Oregon and they have not seen or heard from him. I told those people that WE know PHIL Very, Very well and this is NOT him..I just pray to God there is no fowl play here.
Even if he was in a comma at a hospital and he did not have his wallet with is identification, they would of put a pic of him and ask if any body knows who this is..I am praying by tomorrow they go and look at his account..This is going to be the BIGGEST lead yet..His cell phone rings but he has no voice mail on it and I know he did..Plus I believe the Cop said something about the phone being used but it was not Phil..Well how can they tell who is using the cell phone..Unless they called the number that it went to and they do not know him..Very, Very Strange indeed..I sure will let who ever is reading this know what we are finding out. This is like reading a mystery

Dear Lord! Please take Phil in the Palm of your Hand keeping him safe. Please give us some kind of sign that he is OK..I ask this in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit..Lift him back Home..AMEN!! and Thank YOU!

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by spider6, Apr 30, 2014
Oh jeez Vic....yes indeed. Prayers out.

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by VICourageous, Apr 30, 2014
Thank YOU! Jugglin, Airley and Spider..You have now idea how much this means to me to have you reply on here..I just know that the Power of Prayer will give us some kind of answer. I have seen it work its miracles on here way to many times.
It is a Bummer when people do not catch some things on the side line here. They get Bumped down and out so fast and if we are not on all the time, or hang on long then we miss so

Bless U Girls..I love you for reaching out on here and showing some true, wonderful, caring

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by AShellof_Me, Apr 30, 2014
Oh Vic... what a terrifying and heartbreaking feeling not to know where your dear friend is! I admire your strength in pushing to find the truth honey... to keep at the police to keep searching... to keep at it!  I also believe FULLY in the power of prayer my friend.  I do so pray for PHIL, and that you and his family find the answers you seek.  May God protect and keep him and lead him home... May the Lord give wisdom and compassion to the authorities who might be able to shed light to his whereabouts and lead you and his family to some resolution... and May God give you all comfort and a measure of patience and peace while you wait this time out for your dear friend... Peace to you. ... and if you do not find peace my friend, Vic, May God use YOU and your vigilance for HIS good along this journey. Lord God, I ask you to cover Vic powerfully with your protection that nothing should come against her - keep her safe and comforted - her heart and mind clear and resolute for your purpose Lord. Amen.

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by BanMethadone, Apr 30, 2014
wow over a month...I'm so sorry Vic. That's terrifying, to say the least. I'm sending my positive thoughts your way, and I hope that this situation is resolved, and that your friend can get treatment to get him back on the right track. My oldest brother is a paranoid Schizophrenic, so I can sort of relate tho it's not drug related. He would become ill and go missing for long periods of time. He would walk the streets and then one day you might see him and he wouldn't even know who you were he was so far gone. It's hell knowing that someone you love isn't in their right mind and they are somewhere out there. It's so unsettling and with all you've already had to deal with, this has to be tough. I hope this worry and pain comes to and end for you and your friend soon.

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by VICourageous, Apr 30, 2014
Thanks Girls..Yes, but that is what is strange like I said..He is always at home and if he goes out he comes back home. He had to take his car & the Dog. His Mental issues keep him at home so no one will take things from him.
I sure pray I find out SOMETHING today..I have a good feeling about it because the Power of Pray does work.

I just hope & pray he is OK..I do not need to loose another one. 4 family members in these last months was BAD enough and I am still grieving..I will FLIP my COOKIE if it is bad! I can NOT take any more right
But I do have a OK feeling that he is alive..???!!!!!????.....

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by opus88, Apr 30, 2014
Oh my dear lady your load is very heavy, please know i too will add Phil, you and all your family to my prayers as well.
This is all very strange and you need help getting some answers, I pray that help will come soon...

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by nonights, Apr 30, 2014
Oh Vic. I'm so sorry. I will pray for Phil and you.

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by clean_in_ks, Apr 30, 2014
Sorry to just now be reading this, heart wrenching?  Being gone for a MONTH?  No wonder all of you are frantic!  I will join you in prayer for Phil......I do know one thing....God knows where Phil is......and soon all of you that know and love him will know too.
It's great that you have a detective on board.....and maybe some puzzle pieces will start fitting together if they can trace his financial info and all the other things you all have offered to help.

I also am truly sad about the friend of your Mom's...the one that just died in the hospital.  I was telling my hubby that you just lost a friend to this disease......and Heather just shared someone that died too.  We think "it won't ever be us".....but that is a lie straight from the pit of hell.  It can FOR SURE be us.....if we go back out....we just might not make it back.

I will join you in prayer, Vic....please keep us updated when you know more about Phil, Ok?  Love you babe~

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by breezytoo, May 02, 2014
No word from Phil yet? Oh hon, my heart is sad for you and Phil, but I will never give up prayers for him to be found with a good looking new lady in tow! Read some red flags though so you are right to be concerned. I wish and hope and pray the best for your friend dear lady. Love you, <3

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by ROSYouralright, May 03, 2014
Any word yet Vic? So sorry about all this..

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by VICourageous, May 05, 2014
UPDATE!!! It is May 5th 2014. I can not say much on here because it is under investigation right now. BUT We sure need some BIG PRAYERS!!! The family is a MESS!!!!! Alive or Not that is the question? Been too long!! I will say more on what I DO know so far later. When I know for sure.

Please send some Prayers our way!

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by msdelight, May 05, 2014
Praying for answers and guidance and peace for Phil, his family and friends. You hold on to your cookies lady kins. Deep breaths. Praying for YOU.

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by weaver71, May 05, 2014
I have done the manic disappearing act, my instincts lead me to village cultures and ancient civilizations. What drives this person? What have you heard him speak passionately about, a time or place that his eyes lit up when he spoke about it?

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by VICourageous, May 05, 2014
NO..They found things and I sent you a PM because of the investigation right now..He is missing around here up in the Mountains or somewhere close. Not sure if he is alive..The rescue team is out right now, but might not be in the right area just because some evidence came

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by ariley13, May 05, 2014
Vic, I am so sorry and I hope that you and all of his loved ones get some sort of closure. The not knowing has to be the worst part of this. Saying a prayer for his safe return as well as for all of his loved ones.

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by VICourageous, May 05, 2014
THANK YOU!! It is just what I friggen need right now myself..OHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

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by AShellof_Me, May 05, 2014
Still praying!!

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by zerokewl123, May 05, 2014
Sorry to hear Vic that is crazy and may he return safely in one piece may peace be with all involved

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