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Oct 18, 2009 - 18 comments

Alright, so my boyfriend has this... huge problem with calling people until they answer their phones. On Friday, he called me AT LEAST 5 times in one hour. I told him i couldn't talk because I was busy doing an essay. On Saturday, I specifically told him not to call me because I was at work. There is a strict No Cellphones rule and you aren't supposed to have your phone at all. He called me 17 times juusstt in the stretch that I was working. Then I answered and politely asked him to stop calling... half hour later he called. After that I just turned off my phone.

When i turned my phone on in the morning I had over 4 pathetic voicemails, all the same. "Hey babe/sweetie it's just me....................... Damien............. I just wanted to see what you're doing....... you're probably (listing a bunch of possible things I could be doing). Ok.. call me back, love you....... " And then one saying "You must not want to talk to me."

(@&@)(&$_!

Today he called like 7 times. I told him when I was busy and when he could call, when does he call? When I'm busy of couse.

So I called him and the first thing he says is, "Hey.. *happy voice* my uncle died." I said I was sorry, etc, then I said, "I need to have a little chat with you. I don't think you understand the concept that if someone doesn't answer their phone, THEY CAN'T TALK. And just letting you know, getting me in trouble at work over your excessive/compulsive calling doesn't earn you any brownie points either. I tell you when you can call. Call then. And if I don't answer, leave a voicemail and I'll call back. Do. Not. Keep. Calling. K?"

Him: "Oh........... sorry........................................... Hey i might be getting a new guitar!"

Me: "Okay.... sorry I have to go. Bye."

*@*@(&@(

So, yeah I was a little mean. But his stupidity annoys me. There's a certain level of stupid I can stand and his level is just below that line. Aggggghhhhhhh.

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777052 tn?1333504781
by Wiley_Willow, Oct 18, 2009
Are you serious???? He sounds a wee bit obsessed with calling.... You weren't that mean! I'd do the same thing! Let me know what else happens, k?

808144 tn?1332724340
by iwouldbdanielle, Oct 18, 2009
Will do, doll. :]

And yes, i'm dead serious. I think it's rather ridiculous.

777052 tn?1333504781
by Wiley_Willow, Oct 18, 2009
Fosho, it's ridiculous.

808144 tn?1332724340
by iwouldbdanielle, Oct 18, 2009
Silly boy must want my handprint on his face

777052 tn?1333504781
by Wiley_Willow, Oct 18, 2009
rotf
Probably.

808144 tn?1332724340
by iwouldbdanielle, Oct 18, 2009
Ohhhhhhh, he does. haha

675347 tn?1365460645
by ginger899, Oct 18, 2009
Forgive me for interfering but that is one boyfriend who DOESN'T want to listen to you. ....he may be cute but selective deafness at this level......????

808144 tn?1332724340
by iwouldbdanielle, Oct 18, 2009
You aren't interfering by any means.

I knowwwww, my own dog listens better than he does. It makes me feel completely insignificant, or that he doesn't evven care what I think

662972 tn?1270166301
by Holliee, Oct 18, 2009
Hello I ran up on this and wow he is little no wait not little very much so obssessive. If I were you I would sit down and talk to him and if he says ok....hey I bought a car (who cares you were talking about something that is important to you) repeat if needed but I would ask him to repeat what you said and why you said it, Sounds like he listens to nothing or is VERY insecurity...how long you been together...also sorry for interferring ur business.  

306455 tn?1288862071
by flmagi, Oct 19, 2009
Sorry, but he's acting very immature and rude and needs to be told that , plain and simple. You really need to nip this behavior in the bud. Sorry for interfering....

458072 tn?1291415186
by peggy64, Oct 19, 2009
Sounds like he has OCD, and you are the object of his obsession. He might be cute, but this is where violence starts. Not saying he will be violent, who can predict? but if you go to all the women that had obsessed men in their lives, they would say it started out with something simple, like phone calls, then progressed.]

It might be cute now, that he wants to stay in contact with you so much, but it won't be cute when(if) he progresses to "you can't be out of his sight" obsession, and violence occurs because of it.

You might really want to evaluate this relationship, for your own safety. Just for wisdoms sake, you know?

808144 tn?1332724340
by iwouldbdanielle, Oct 19, 2009
You aren't interfering at allllll. lol.

We've been going out for 4 or 5 months now. I've tried to talk to him but he just doesn't listen. He's always been a little immature but it's getting to the point where I can't really stand it.

I actually do think he could be violent. He has really bad anger sometimes and he has a terrible time expressing it. I'm really good at calming him down but who knows how long it'll last. I don't know. I'm trying to be optimistic but it isn't working so well.

I almost want to break it off for a while. His psychotic stalker exgirlfriend called me last night yelling at me because I won't talk to him. I said, "Ahem... excuse me? This isn't exactly your relationship to be worrying about. If you call me again I'll call the police and tell them you have a drug cartel or marijuana in your basement ready for shipment to Cuba. Dead serious. Stop calling me." She used to called me obsessively too.

BLAAHH! Lol

808144 tn?1332724340
by iwouldbdanielle, Oct 19, 2009
*of marijuana

770551 tn?1305578901
by sunshine1976, Oct 19, 2009
This would annoy me to no end.  First off WHY is ex calling you and why is he discussing your relationship with said EX??
I've had a few of these in my younger days back during the time the dinosaurs ruled the earth and they aren't worth it.
Find someone with a higher maturity level.  Your gut instinct is usually right.  

458072 tn?1291415186
by peggy64, Oct 19, 2009
I would tell her she can have him back, and send him packing, before he packs a punch on  you......

808144 tn?1332724340
by iwouldbdanielle, Oct 19, 2009
He supposedly "hates" her, but why is he calling her all the time then? Quite frankly, his ex is a bulldog. Boy do I mean WOOF WOOF. Lmao.

If he doesn't straighten up his act, I'm dumping him. I already have enough to deal with and I don't want to have to deal with this.

483733 tn?1326798446
by TrudieC, Oct 19, 2009
I am so impressed by the maturity you show.  I was awful at your age and would stay in a relationship no matter how badly they treated me.  Bravo for you for knowing what you want, need and deserve.  Confidence will take you everywhere.

808144 tn?1332724340
by iwouldbdanielle, Oct 19, 2009
Haha thank you very much, Trudie. It's appreciated. :]

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