Nov 19, 2009
Please don't send me questions that have already been answered on one of the STD or HIV forums. I will not disagree with correct info from Vance, Grace, 2terrifed, KDaily, Teak, Lizzie, Joggen, JeanClaude, Nursegirl, etc., and most certainly not Drs. Handsfield and Hook. If you have been given incorrect information, it will be corrected on the forums by one of the regulars who is educated in that field.
Also, if your question hasn't been answered, post it on the appropriate forum. I don't mean to sound harsh or offend, but I've been working a lot, just moved, etc. I don't have much time to get on here and answer questions. You will be doing yourself a big favor by posting your questions on the appropriate forum.
A few notes, as these are the questions I get most often -
HIV is not possible from oral sex.
No one - even a doctor - can tell you if you have an STD or HIV from a description of symptoms. If you are worried, you have to test.
Herpes alone doesn't mean someone cheated. HPV doesn't either. Actually, no STD or HIV means someone cheated. A lot of things go into determining that.
We can help you assess risk, figure out timing, test results, etc. We just can not diagnose, and no one should diagnose you online.