Aug 09, 2010
Strange title right? Well I just realized that women have evolved into something that I had only expected from men. I don't know if this is the "modern" woman or they have just no respect for other women nowadays, but it is quite disconcerting. Let me give you the back story. Richie and I went out to a nightclub on Friday night. Granted, he always seems to get some type of attention from other women, maybe looks and stares, but so do I from men, so it's not an uncommon occurrence. Well one girl in particular was standing and dancing next to us. Not very attractive, huge boobs but that's all she had going for her. Not trying to sound conceited but definitely no competition with me. I'm being harsh here because what she does is completely disgusting my words aren't even enough to get out the anger I felt. So anyway, she's dancing with her a$$ all out and some random guy comes up behind her and she turns and looks and I guess she's ok with it and just continues to rub her a$$ on the guy. Richie and I laughed because it was just so stupid and nasty. So him and I are dancing and its clear that we are a couple and so I decided to go to the bathroom. When I come back out, the girl is gone. Not that I was watching her but I can sense when a woman is trying to get my man's attention. So we left the club and were in the cab ride home. In the cab he tells me that the big breasted hoebag had the nerve to ask him for his number. WHAT????? Like as soon as I walk away she goes and tries to get his phone number. He says to her "I'm here with my fiance and no you can't have my number." So her friend goes "come on let's go" and she turns and says "well at least I tried", trying to be cute. I am so disgusted, is this what women have become? You knew we were together, it was obvious I wasn't just some girl he was dancing with. You waited for the perfect time to ask him, so you could care less and have no respect for me as a woman. You are so pathetic that you have to go after a man who has a girl so what is it, you like the competition? That's how much self respect you have that you have to go after men who aren't available. You have enough balls to ask him when I'm not around but not enough to stick around afterward to deal with the aftermath. I don't understand. Men aren't even that disrespectful. I had one guy approach me when Richie was in the bathroom, it was obvious that this guy didn't think I was with anyone and as soon as I said no, he walked away. Have women switched roles here? I mean I just don't understand, maybe I'm naive. It just angered me so much.