As the stomach turns

Well here I am again ! I have some great news to report ! I got to meet my son's girlfriend last night .She is a wonderful young lady and I have never seen my son so happy . It is a happy day at the Melissaky homestead ! She was so natural and friendly (she talked to me and Mr M like she had known us forever !) ,She  has a wonderful personality and I can tell my son is really taken with her .I can tell why : ) .She also is gorgeous ! Oh happy day! .On another note Mr M has been the most attentive ,romantic husband in the world this weekend .He took me out to dinner Friday night ,we went to a concert in the park last night and I have had breakfast in bed the last 2 mornings .What have I done to deserve all of this ? I even got invited out to the man cave last night ! Wonders never cease ! I am kinda scared the world is coming to an end ! LOL!! I am so happy about all of this . Maybe I finally got through to Mr M .I was feeling so neglected and I felt so removed from his life .I was starting to feel like our marriage was in real trouble .Our 25th wedding anniversary is next month and I wanted to renew our wedding vows to celebrate it but Mr M didn't want to .I haven't figured out why he didn't want to but my mind raced with all sorts of possiblities as to why he didn't want to and none of them were good .: (  Ever since my numerous health problems started last year it has put a strain on our marriage and I have lived in fear that one day he would just give up on us .I no longer feel like that .This weekend we had several in depth conversations about our marriage and our relationship and I feel so sure that it's all going to be alright .He assured me that he loves me with all his heart and he is sorry if he did anything to make me feel otherwise .He also promised me he will make every effort to spend more time with me and to have a date night with me at least one night a week .I am so ,so happy I can't contain myself . I have cried but they were tears of joy .I am going to make more of an effort to be the wife I once was .I am going to start dressing nice instead of bumming around in pajamas and to wear makeup and be a more upbeat ,positive person like I was before my illness .I am going to be more attentive and loving towards him and find something else besides my pain and sickness to talk about all the time .I just know now our marriage is stronger than ever and we have great communication between us that can solve most anything that comes up . I am going to end this here but stay tuned for the next episode of As the stomach turns .......