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Sep 05, 2010 - 5 comments

Well here I am again ! I have some great news to report ! I got to meet my son's girlfriend last night .She is a wonderful young lady and I have never seen my son so happy . It is a happy day at the Melissaky homestead ! She was so natural and friendly (she talked to me and Mr M like she had known us forever !) ,She  has a wonderful personality and I can tell my son is really taken with her .I can tell why : ) .She also is gorgeous ! Oh happy day! .On another note Mr M has been the most attentive ,romantic husband in the world this weekend .He took me out to dinner Friday night ,we went to a concert in the park last night and I have had breakfast in bed the last 2 mornings .What have I done to deserve all of this ? I even got invited out to the man cave last night ! Wonders never cease ! I am kinda scared the world is coming to an end ! LOL!! I am so happy about all of this . Maybe I finally got through to Mr M .I was feeling so neglected and I felt so removed from his life .I was starting to feel like our marriage was in real trouble .Our 25th wedding anniversary is next month and I wanted to renew our wedding vows to celebrate it but Mr M didn't want to .I haven't figured out why he didn't want to but my mind raced with all sorts of possiblities as to why he didn't want to and none of them were good .: (  Ever since my numerous health problems started last year it has put a strain on our marriage and I have lived in fear that one day he would just give up on us .I no longer feel like that .This weekend we had several in depth conversations about our marriage and our relationship and I feel so sure that it's all going to be alright .He assured me that he loves me with all his heart and he is sorry if he did anything to make me feel otherwise .He also promised me he will make every effort to spend more time with me and to have a date night with me at least one night a week .I am so ,so happy I can't contain myself . I have cried but they were tears of joy .I am going to make more of an effort to be the wife I once was .I am going to start dressing nice instead of bumming around in pajamas and to wear makeup and be a more upbeat ,positive person like I was before my illness .I am going to be more attentive and loving towards him and find something else besides my pain and sickness to talk about all the time .I just know now our marriage is stronger than ever and we have great communication between us that can solve most anything that comes up . I am going to end this here but stay tuned for the next episode of As the stomach turns .......

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by JadedSweetheart, Sep 06, 2010
Wow!  I'm so glad to hear things are going to well for your marriage!  Plus you got to meet the new girlfriend and you didn't even have to disguise yourself as a grocery display!  It sounds like some good things are finally coming to you after all you've been through.  
How was the man cave?  Was it as great as we thought it was?  I'm so happy for you that things are going so well with your family!  Can't wait to hear how things go and, Wow, 25 years?  You definetly deserve a round of applause.  That is really great. :)


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by namnam46, Sep 06, 2010
I'm SO happy for you!!!!   Isn't it funny how our minds can travel to the dark side of things SOOO quickly when there is NOTHING there at all!!!  

I JUST LOVE  this Journal update!!!  I ACTUALLY stopped to read it again because it is SO uplifting!!  You DESERVE EVERY bit of the attention that he is giving to you and that you are giving to him.  

What a LUCKY Lady you are and what a FORTUNATE Man Mr. M is to have a Wonderful and Beautiful Lady like you for his Bride of 25 years.  

Keep ONE thing it mind - EVEN though he COULDN'T pull this off if he DIDN'T love you there ALSO may be an ulterior motive here -  THE LIST!!!!  He MAY be HOPING that you will be SOOOO Happy that the "TERRIBLE LIST" will DISAPPEAR from your thoughts and your mind for awhile and he can be in his Man Cave AND Live Happily and Romantically with YOU and NOT have to do ANY repairs and renovations around the house for awhile!!  LOL  And you know what - IF it were me and My Jean had done that with me I WOULD have TORN the list up and said the "Heck with it we'll worry about it NEXT Year!!!  LOL

I LOVE the fact that you MET the "Girlfriend" and she was EVERYTHING that you had hoped that your son would meet and fall in love with!!  

I CAN'T think of ANYTHING better that could have happened to you this past week and I ALSO can't think of ANYONE that is MORE deserving than YOU are!!  

I'M SOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!........Mama Sherry

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by melissaky, Sep 06, 2010
Bree the man cave was pretty neat ! I took my laptop out and played some music and we played cards .It was really fun ! Mr M explained to me that a man needs a place where he can have all his stuff and work on things (he once worked on a motorcycle in our living room ) and to have a place where he can hang out with his friends without making a mess in the house ( I am all for that )  so-oo I may change my tune about the man cave thing . I also am really glad we worked things out . We have been through a lot of trials and tribulations in our 25 yrs together and I am so glad I married him .He is a wonderful husband and best friend to me .He still looks pretty hot too !! LOL!! My heart still goes pitter patter whenever he is around .Thanks for the applause !
Mama Sherry , I didn't think about the list ! I hope he hasn't got an ulterior motive here ! LOL!! Yeah I'm like what list after this weekend .So what if the roof falls down on our heads ! LOL!!  Oh Mama Matt's girlfriend is just the sweetest girl .I am so glad I don't have to lurk in disguise  at Kroger's to find out about her .She is just the sweetest young lady .My son seems to be crazy about her and it warms my heart to see him so happy .He wants us to all go to dinner together and I told him Mr M and I would love to .It has been the most wonderful weekend .I feel so happy with how everything has worked out .Thanks to both of you for your comments .You guys are the best ya know !

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by namnam46, Sep 06, 2010
Your week-end has put a SMILE on my face and I'M so VERY HAPPY for you and your Hubby!!!  

Sweetie - YOU are ALWAYS there for Bree and me ALSO!!!

We BOTH Love you......Mama Sherry

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by JadedSweetheart, Sep 06, 2010
Yes, we do both love you and we're both so happy for you!  You really are always there for us and I'm glad we can be there for you and share in your fun with your journal.  I'm so glad you decided to do it!

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