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Mother Pissed me off

Sep 28, 2010 - 5 comments

Ok some of u may know  Im on bedrest, My mom called yesterday and ask if I could watch my sister baby caleb for a little while she go on 2 interview... Of course I said yes cause I love caleb and didnt want him going to a total stranger.... So sister dropped him off this morning and me and caleb had a blast... hes been using all the things I bought for my baby and he loves them all... I recorded some of his smiling moments and I was pride of my 2 dogs cause they have not bothered him nore have they even came around him... Of course anytime I have him on the floor the dogs get put in cage but other then that he is always in my arms.... So anyway, My mom called me and demanded that I kept the dogs in the cage... Im like WHAT!!! How are u going to tell e how to run y household when first Im not getting paid for this second, U was going to leave him with a total stranger and would not tell them how to run there household and 3 im on bedrest and shouldnt be lefting holding nore watching him in the first place....

Iam so pissed off right now that I said i would never watch him again.... I love caleb just as much as they do and would not alow ANYTHING to happen... Hes in my arms the whole time and im having a baby of my on... My dogs ( a yorkie-poo and miniture labadoodle) are very small and good dogs...

I understand the concern but u was going to alow him to get watched with someone that is a smoker and only doing it for money and someone she dnt even know nore have any background info of so wth!!!!

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by Cassandrajane, Sep 28, 2010
If your dogs were BIG hefty dogs that LOVE to jump... I wouldnt put them in a cage, I would put them in a separate room.. (Not saying what you did was wrong!!...) But if I was your mum, I wouldnt say they HAVE to be locked away, I would say, do you mind keeping the dogs away, if they were BIG hefty dogs...... other wise, if yor dogs are harmless. I would let them be free. Anyways...
Your mum kinda sounds like my mum, would leave us with anyone... no background or anything... it was horrible!

Your mum cant say can you have them and then be like BLEH BLEH BLEH!!! Thats not fair...

sorry about this... it isnt fair, what you said was right, and what you did too....

xx

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by l0st_child, Sep 28, 2010
My dos are so sweet, and another reason i didnt understand it cause she has 2 dogs of her own 2 poodles... My sister live with her so the baby is exposed to her dogs as well....

1303813 tn?1303159362
by Cassandrajane, Sep 28, 2010
Awh....
Okay, now that DOESNT make sense... I would have turned around and said. Do you keep your dogs in a cage? I have a ZOOO... and animals like cats and dogs makes me sad when they are in cages. Like my local pet store... Their kittens are in cages... where as any other pet store they have a MASSIVE section cut of for the kittens to run around..... makes me sad haha....
But your dogs were away for a little... are you gonna have them out all the time once your little one is here... or they might get resentful?


xx

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by sisi2399, Sep 28, 2010
UGGGGRRRR!!!!! I completly understand, I have a good attitude but hate ppl telling me what to do or how to do it.  I can be very rude sometimes and my strong will makes it look worse.  Im really sorry that happen to you but sometimes you just need to think about you and your baby, def right now you guys are the priority.  Im sorry about your nephew cause next time he will probably end up with a baby sitter and your mom will never know what they do to him or even if they have dogs around him.  You did good! you thought bout the well being of you rbaby nephew and made the decition to care for him even thought you are really not suppose to.  Stay calm, being stressed is not good for your lil bundle of joy.  He is the one that really needs you know.  stay focused on you and him.  Good luck

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by onyxangel, Sep 29, 2010
I think it might be just ur mom trying to have that bit of control over what you do. Sometimes I have to let my mother know I'm a grown a$$ woman and I wont be TOLD what to do. Again I dont think it's an issue about dog here but It seems more like a control issue. Just sayin'
You had every right to be pi$$ed off. I would just talk to her and let her know how that made you feel. It's always best getting stuff out in the open.
xx Good luck hun

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