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Bf's inconsiderate friend

Nov 20, 2010 - 1 comments

Bf asked 3 days ago if I minded if we went out to breakfast or lunch with his friend Aundria. Which I have issues with there friendship because she is just really mean to him and so much more I can't even get into at this time.

I agreed and we decided on 11am since BF had to work till 2am at the bar.  

We get there and Aundria asks to hold Kaelynn so I hand her over to her and Phoenix her 2 year old is sitting next to her and asks if she can hold the baby and Aundria lets her hug K-bug. Phoenix is holding her hand which at this time I'm not upset.

A few minutes later after I have K-bug back Phoenix tells me she PUKED this morning! Aundria said "yeah she puked and is running a fever" I was furious of course I was nice and bite my tongue. I wish I hadn't now though. Phoenix is sitting there eating shivering. Obviously she has a fever because it was quite warm in the restaurant. She even asked for her coat while she was eating because she was cold.

If her daughter was sick she should have canceled breakfast. I know that BF only gets to see her every few months.

We get out to the car and I tell BF how pissed I am and he replies "I didn't know she was sick" I reply "I know but I'm still pissed she should have canceled" he replies "I agree but you know that saying No reason to cry over spilled milk. It's done and we can just hope that Kaelynn doesn't get sick."  

What don't cry over spilled milk? Seriously I couldn't believe he just said that I bite my tongue again so we didn't get in a fight. I was pissed and I had every right to be pissed. I have put off seeing my friends brand new babies because I had a little cough even though I wasn't very sick because I didn't want to bring germs around there babies. I even missed my friends sons 1 year birthday party because I had a cough and her sister had a 3 month old that would be there I didn't want to get sick.

It just further proves that she is a stupid idiot. Another reason for me not to like her. If my daughter was sick and puking I wouldn't take her anywhere my plans for the day would be canceled.

I'm just praying that my baby girl doesn't get sick. I don't want to deal with a 3 month old puking with a fever when I have done everything to keep her away from sick people. I haven't seen my dad in 3 weeks because he's been sick and just now feeling better but still has a lingering cough.

I'm still upset 7 hours later. I'm think I just needed to vent a little since BF is being stupid and I couldn't vent to him.

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by Lost_in_Love, Dec 01, 2010
I agree with you!!! If my child were sick (I don't have any, but still...) I would not take them anywhere!! Especially around a newborn baby. You have every right to be upset. I suppose now there isn't much you can do about it, but you know what to watch for. On a different note, K-bug is a very cute nickname!

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