Jan 20, 2011
well just got off of facebook and im quite new to it but discovered that a 16 yr old friend of my baby sister (also 16) has just..like on monday discovered she's 7 yes seven months pregnant!
now is that denial or just plain i dont pay enough attention to my body? i mean ok eveb if your slight build and stuff by 7 months well five actually you are bound to know....aren't you?
anyhow my baby sister is down to be her birth partner..i feel for this girl as my sister is still very immature and cant take care of herself let alone anyone else...how will she cope giving advice to this girl?
more to the point if this girl is so niave, or not with it enough to know she's pregnant how will she cope?...7 months of being a teen and not looking after herself thats a big thing but i was sooo shocked because she spoke briefly about having a scan next week to check baby..but spent ages talking non stop about buying a pram...i mean come on having a baby is more about baby and life and health etc she's more interested in getting her mum to cough up for an expensive pram!
I know especially from friends here on MH that having a baby is sooo important and involves so much more and i cant think of one of them who's mentioned a pram...they're all health and welfare of baby and myself type...what is the world coming too?
am i just feeling wierd and ranting or does anyone feel this girl is really immature etc...
id love to know your thoughts xx