Dec 22, 2008
Well, again today i asked my mom to take me somewhere...actually to get last minute christmas stuff! and she told me she had to go somewhere first and i needed to babysit the kids for her (my neices, my lil bro, and my younger sister) ages1, 2, 3, 7, & 13! i said okay as long as you dont mind taking me to the store.....then she woke my SIL up and asked her if she wanted to go with her.....her lil boy was asleep so without asking she just left him here...thats another 2 yr. old...my dad is also here to help watch them but.....he is sort of disabled (crippling arthritis, heart problems, etc.) and i wouldn't dare ask him to help me with these kids....7 total (including mine)! what i dont understand is why she told me no and then went and asked my SIL....she is preggo AGAIN (4th time this year---3 m/c's) and i think that has alot to do with it! i dont understand why my mom tries to make a differnece......she would rather keep my neices and nephews here but when i ask her to watch my son for a few hours so i can get something done or just to have a lil break she always has something to do! she has only agreed to watching him once and he is now 2 1/2 years old! my neices and nephew are here every weekend and sometimes through the week as well! we live 10 ft. from each other and the place i live in is hers but we fixed it up a total of 9,000 for plumbing, paint, heating/cooling, septic, water, electrical....plus we added on a room and porch, and she agreed to let us stay here rent free......a few months ago she insisted that we pay her rent or else! we were offered a place to live last week if we fixed it up & paid half the bills each month (cheaper) and i told her about it.....as soon as we move (if we do) my bro/SIL are moving in and have already agreed that they wont have to pay rent.....( brother has no job/wont keep one)(he's the baby/pick of us all) i am just so fed up with the way she is/has been treating my family that i am ready to just screw it and leave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!