Today is day 4 I started my clomid yesterday and we test again on January 15th. My husband and I have decided if this month doesn't work, we will try the IUI. And in some ways that gives me a new hope! I pray though every single night when I'm laying on my husband chest that this will be our month! And I pray it is. The hot flashes have already started for me which different. My first month the side effects were bad, the 2nd month barley any. This month I have only took one pill and I feel like I took 3 or 4 already. But that's okay no complaints, just raw hope and faith it's worth it!