Feb 12, 2009
Alright where to begin. First, through out all 3 of my pregnancies I always got told I was "underweight" by friends and family. And to that, I'm sorry I don't just gain weight and my body doesn't over react and i'm healthy and perfectly fine according to my doctor LOL... Well, with all 3, I lost any weight I gained except the lbs in the boobs, within 2 weeks. I don't understand why someone would hate me for that.
My SIL, the one who just lost her baby, is pi ss ed off at me because I am a twig and she still hasn't lost her weight. I didn't say anything to her, and she said this to my husband, who is her brother you know. I have a feeling this is more of her being mad at me, because she lost her baby, and I'm just steering clear of her, and not waving the baby in front of her face. I mean I have a lot going on and surgeries i'm preping for, and it's just upsetting I guess.
I go out of my way to be extra nice to her, and only if she asks to see Olivia, i'll show her, and only if she brings her up I'll say anything. I don't want to be rubbing anything in her face, and i'm going out on a limb doing the best I can for this. What do I do?
Anywho, I had to take Olivia in today for a check up, and the lady, well nurse if that's what you call her at the office, asked me if I adopted her. I asked why she would ask that, and she said, "Well, you don't look like you just had a baby!" And I kind of blew up and screamed, "Of COURSE I HAD HER GOD, WHAT DO YOU THINK EVERYONE DOESN'T LOSE THE F***ING WEIGHT?" Yeah ok, I blew up, but still. The tone in which she said it was freaking rude beyond he ll! And even one of the other nurses told her, that was uncalled for and she shouldn't ever say anything like that to people.
Ugh, I needed to just vent i'm sorry. But ugh!!!!