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Birth parents 2nd visit

Feb 04, 2013 - 5 comments

Friday the bmom texted asking if they could come over Saturday or Sunday.. I said we have plans because of the superbowl but said we would meet them at the mall Sunday (today) at 1... She never responded i was sure she would this morning but nothing so it must have upset her we said no to her coming here.. Now this IS a good thing.. BUT it frustrates me they ask to see him we agree after a lot of debate and they blow it off.. It's not about me it's about sol and i guarantee you they will NEVER get another chance again.. Nice Whitney is officially gone
One thing that frustrates me is when he gets older and asks if they saw him and wanted to see him.. I will NOT hurt him but I will tell him the truth Iwill Never lie to him about this experience.  It makes me upset that she thinks she can come see him when she wants and then not show up.. Me and my husband go into a panic everytime she texts or wants to see him.. I'm just blabbing now.. but I promise you she won't get another chance.. Court is in 10 days and we're DONE DONE DONE with it all.. I can put all of this behind me and move on being a mother to my son with no one interferring!!

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by renny320, Feb 06, 2013
I am glad they didn't go ahead with the visit. That is better for you and your dh anyhow. Congrats on making it final soon. That will be a huge relief for you and then you don't have to talk to the birth parents any more if you don't want to.

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by Wits777, Feb 06, 2013
Thanks!  It is way better the visit didn't happen. Tomorrow our social worker comes for her last visit so we can tell her the didn't show up and she can document it. It's only 6 days 14 hours and 10 minutes until it's finally Court day!!!
I can't wait to post pics!

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by retta483, Feb 06, 2013
I'm glad it is almost over for you !! then you can breathe & enjoy your little boy with out worry .

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by hopeitworks, Feb 06, 2013
I cant wait to read that you are all done with court and its behind you, then you can move on as your family of 3 with no worries and headaches!! Wishing you the best of luck

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by Wits777, Feb 06, 2013
Thanks Ladies! It's been one hard TTC journey!! But not giving up and now I'm almost done!!!

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