Sep 01, 2013
So, my boyfriend is a truck driver and he's not home usually Monday thru Friday. We do not yet live together, we live about 15 mins apart. He has 2 boys (ages 4 and 6) and a nephew (age 1 1/2). Every weekend he comes home he says we're going to spend time together whether it's with the boys or just us 2. I have yet to experience that weekend time with him. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining. I understand that driving as an occupation can take a toll on the body and when the body gets a break, it wants to do just that... BREAK!
So when he comes home on weekends, a lot of the time, I'm home (I'm on maternity leave where am I going), but he just doesn't want to do anything. He doesn't even want to drive to my house with the kids to come see me. He lives in an apartment with his brother and I live in a house (much bigger than the apartment) with my mom and 23 year old brother. There's so much more for the kids to do at my house, we have games and huge swimming pool in the back yard and a bunch of activities for them to do in the front yard, as well as, riding their bikes and scooters in the neighbor hood without worrying about neighbors or a busy street.
WHY IS IT THAT HE WANTS ME TO COME OVER THERE TO THE APARTMENT TO LITERALLY STARE AT 4 WALLS AND BE IN THE SAME ROOM WITH 3 SCREAMING BOYS ALL DAY!???!???
Like I said, I understand that he's tired sometimes, but until this baby comes out MY BELLY AINT GETTING ANY SMALLER TO FIT BEHIND A STEERING WHEEL... I may not be in labor, but with these Braxton hicks contractions I don't really feel safe driving too many places right now. Why can't he understand that...
UGH.... MY BOYFRIEND!!!