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I need some advice please

Nov 12, 2013 - 4 comments

Tomorrow I'm going with my parents to a new Cancer center.  I'm so scared and nervous if they should tell us they can't help either.  I don't know how to handle it, what to say to her and my dad and what to do next.  Do I say to them, especially her we will keep searching and going to other places?  Or not say anything at all? What if she's hysterical? Then most likely my dad will be too.  My sister is already so nervous.  She's asking me if I will be ok tomorrow if its bad news.  I just don't know.  Help me please.

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by Shannon79, Nov 12, 2013
It's such a tough spot to be in. I really don't know what I would do either. You have been so supportive and strong for your parents. But unfortunately we can't always be strong. We're only human. We're not machines.

All I can say is I think it would be worth a shot to try other clinics if they can't do anything. You never know which one might be able to help her.

I hope you find some answers soon. And know that we're all praying for her

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by Sheaby, Nov 12, 2013
you can only do what comes natural in the moment.  Unfortunately, you can't plan a reaction.  Be as strong as you can, but let go if you have to.  I wish I had better advice for you, but that's all I got.  While I do not know what it's like to have a mother go thru cancer, my grandfather (who was more a father figure than my own dad) dealt with a rare cancer for over 10 years before he finally just gave up and got tired of fighting.  It's a nasty thing to deal with, for everyone involved.  I will keep your family in my thoughts and hope that you all have the strength and peace to handle whatever news is delivered.

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by Moma_Cher, Nov 13, 2013
I'm so sorry this is happening. Shea is right... Just be in the moment. Sending you love and prayers.

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by plumber43, Nov 13, 2013
Sending you strength and love, it's ok not to be strong, we are only human! I don't know what your going through but I am here for you!
Love Melanie

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