I have a 9 month old niece (will be 10 months this month). She was born at 35 weeks and was fine. Didn't have to go to the NICU and her only problem was jaundice, but got that taken care of witha couple of extra days in the hospital. She is a petite child, but we associated that with petite parents. Her pediatrician has thrown around the idea of Kaitlyn being autistic because of the size of her head (smaller than what it should be). I can not find anywhere that states the size of a child's head is a sign of autism. Kaitlyn has reached her milestones. She crawls, stands up and walks around holding on to the table, etc., claps, says bye, hi and dada. Recently within the last week or so, we have noticed that she's not talking like she was. I thought maybe her parents weren't spending enough time talking to her, but my mother, who keeps her 3 days a week says that she talks to her all the time and Kaitlyn will just look at her, not try to mimic or anything. I want to think that because of what the pediatrician has said that we are "looking" for the signs, but are we being realistic? I thought 9 months was a little early to diagnose this. Either way, if she does or doesn't have it, we can't change it and we aren't going to love her less. We just want to be informed as much as we can so we can help her.