i have always known there was something different about my son the way he is i have another child and didnt have any problems like this with the other , he didnt speak until he was 4 , he still struggles to know how to act around kids his own age , he is very aggressive especially when we go places or you put the wrong clothes on him , he doesnt like ppl touching him , but he loves cuddles ( on his terms ) he hates playing tig and loud unexpected noises ,gives little eye contact , we need to be careful what he watches on tv as he will; copy a complete scene from a movie/tv show , he constantly lies on the floor playing with his toys but usually his play is different , he will lie on the floor and watch the wheels go round on his cars , doesnt always answer when u say his name , its so difficult to find food he likes as he refuses so many different types because of how they look/smell/feel he has been attendng a psychologist.for a while and she told me he is on the autism spectrum , i have also had other ppl ask me if he has autism ( a support worker for autistic kids ) but one of my family members works with autistic adults and they said he is fine , which i know he is not something is not right i have lived with him for 6 years i know him well , i am awaiting an official diagnosis i just keep thinking that i am a bad mum and thats why he is the way he is i try very hard to keep things as relaxed as possible for him , on a good day u are just waiting on him to turn any help would be appreciated ? thank you