i have a daughter that turned 8 in april and the problem is im not getting any straight answers about her,she was born 4 weeks early and was pretty much normal delivery.she was a very sick child all the time she had ear infections every other month the first 3 yrs of her life,she didnt sit up till she was 7 months,never crawled,walked at 13 months,had few words and lost most of them by 18 months,her language was and is delayed,she hates coats,tight clothes,hats,seatbelts,anything with a collar,will only eat certain food very restricted,she loves water,is very heat sensative she will go into rage when she gets overheated at all,she is extremly agressive espessialy if u interrupt her play or if she does not like a certain sound.she also is not potty trained and loves to make odd repetative sounds.her sleep pattern is way off she will usualy not go to bed till about 11 pm sometimes later,she loves to line up everything or put it in groups.she never had many words till she was 5 and even now she is verbal but its delayed and she cant initiate conversations or keep one going.her social skills are way off she has to play her way or she will scream and cry and walk away,she has no friends just her siblings and a couple cousins whom are younger then her.she has one friend who is 5 and she will only play with her if the little girl does what my daughter says if she dont she will not try to negotiate or anything she will just get up and walk away.when we go anywhere she cries that she dont want to go we have to force her and then when we do get there she is usually very cranky or she she wants to lay in the cart covered up.she also does this thing with her hands she likes to open and close her hands repetavily when she wants me to pick her up or when she is upset about something or when she is excited.any ideas would be great.she also loves to jump,spin,or make me fly her,or swing,she even likes to sometimes jump while walkin.