Hi Girls, I have been down at my parent so haven't been able to log on and I am so sorry to hear that you have been spotting Debbie, like all the girls have said its easy to sit hear and say try not to worry as I know the feeling of sheer terror and dreed that consumes you when you see blood but we are all thinking of you and I am so pleased that it has eased up and that the dr was so responsive... I know when it happened to me they were very blase, just told me to rest and to leave it a week... no bloods U/s or anything! Its good news the symptoms are still all there and that the bleeding isn't with cramping and has slowed down... personally if it was me, I would tell DH that you need to do whatever you can to 'guard' your baby and if that means putting yourself to bed and NO BD'ing til after 12 weeks then so be it. This is such an important step in your pregnancy and things can wait.
I hired a cleaner to come in to my home twice a week... had my shopping delivered, went sick more often than I was at work and told DP that as much as I still loved him BD was off the menu as I would not physically or mentally enjoy it knowing that I was feeling so fragile. Like you when you have experienced a loss in the past, it makes every day nerve wracking and I felt that I wanted to do everything I could to ensure I couldn't put the blame on something I had done.
I am keeping you and your little bean in my prayers and asking God to look after you. xx
Rossie - STOP temping!! I did it a few time through habit, my temps were up and down and all over the chart, sometimes (shock horror) under the coverline!! You will drive yourself insane so put that thermometer away and trust in God that this little bean is fine and you are going the whole 9 months this time ((((((((HUGS!))))))))
lori... congrats on your TWW, I believe that all this inhaling of babydust is going to bring you your much deserved BFP!! (and maybe a little hyperventilation!! - paperbag at the ready!)
Sprinkling some more dust just for you...
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Debbie - so happy to hear that it's old blood. Still keeping you in my prayers constantly. Can't wait to hear what great numbers you have.
Rossie - listen to tinker - put down the thermometer . . . step away from the thermometer . . .
{{{{{{drinking in of more BFP koolaid}}}}}}}
Ok girls, i'm stepping away, i put the thermometer in my file cabinet. Out of sight out of mind. No longer in my pillow. I will try to relax and enjoy
Deb- thanks sweetie! I'm hoping to join all of you at the end of this TWW(if I survive!) How are you and your little miracle?xoxo
Bridgette- we have so much baby dust in our systems we're bound to get our BFP's!
Rossie- sit back and enjoy!!