I have had 2 surgeries,the first was to relieve pain.
The first was C2C3 and trim back C4,this did help.
The 2nd was emergency next day surgery.It was
for severe cord compression C4C5C6 and this fusion
left me in chronic pain.Same surgeon and same hospital
and I was told it was a success because no promise was
made to relieve pain just that this is the hope.I also have
nerve damage and cant use my left arm.
I wish you the best,look around these sites and you will
see that multiple disc present a major problem with pain.
MZ33
Get yourself an inflatable seat cushion to sit on while in a car or train. Avoid a cervical collat because althoughy it willo provide temporary relief, the muscles atrophy rapidly and loss of muscle tone leaves you wedded to it.
I would definitely get a second opinion. I had a serious cervical injury with level ten pain and paralysis of an arm and hand(I couldn't hold a pencil ans was using a walker) and was advised to get surgery by two different physicians, as you have, and elected not to do so. A pain specialist (M.D.) and an MRI resulted in manipulation, axial traction and special exercises, which restored the discs to position.