Hello and thanks for your answer!
I will talk to my gyne, in fact I have an appointment next week. I always thought that knowing is always better than living in fear but I'm afraid to get tested because if I do have the gene then it is almost certain I'll have the cancer, and that is really scary. I know a lot of women who are b.c. survivors, but unfortunately mym mom wasn't one of them, so it's hard for me to be optimistic towards my own situation.
I heard that genetic testing is really expensive but in my situation I guess it's worth it. I just wish I was better informed about my mom's case, my father doesn't like to talk about it and I don't think he knows many of the details. I don't even know what was her stage when she was diagnosed.
Anyway, I'll keep you posted and thanks again for your answer. I hope it all goes well for you. I can't believe your gyne told you that your father's side of the family wasn't important, I've always been told that both sides matter equally... Talk about misinformation...!
Hi there,
I'm a BRCA2 gal. I just completed a year of cancer treatment on December 31, 2008. I didn't know I had the gene until I was half way through my treatment. Needless to say I wasn't thrilled, but on the other hand, facts are important because you can deal with them. I learned that my paternal aunt and grandmother had had breast cancer and another paternal aunt had uterine cancer. My gyne's had always told me that my father's side of the family wasn't important. That was certainly misinformation!
I would recommend you discuss your questions with your gyne. See if you can be tested for the genes. It's not that you want to know -- you need to know. You can't deal with fears and possibilities, you can only deal with facts.
Please go talk to your gyne, ok? And keep in touch with me. I want to know how you are doing. Feel free to private message me, all right?
Warm regards,
Chris
Healingwell62
Breast Cancer 1 & 2 Community Leader