My cat is at least 10 years old, he was fine one day and the next day he couldn't defecate or urinate (which I thought he was just using the bathroom outside) he started crying really loud and he's been so distant he's usually a sweetheart follows me purrs when I even enter the room . He acts completely different he won't eat won't drink very weak walks like a drunk hiding away smells weird .. please help my mom is out of town at the moment well I just don't know what to do :'(