What is considered "normal" attachment between a 13 y/o boy and his mom? I have a 13 y/o stepson who visits with his dad about once a month for 3-4 days at a time. When he visits us, she texts him two to three times a day. It is to the point, the child does not want to come to visit his dad but would rather be at home with his mom. His mother allows him to do what he likes at home. He does not socialize with friends, spends too much time on the computer and in general is very morose.
His father is a very good dad, but can't seem to reach his own son anymore. Unfortunately, I have become a bit too involved and lost perspective. Over the last two years, I have watched his mother be consistantly unreasonable, unreliable and blatantly lie to both the children and their old friends. I don't know #1. if the relationship is okay between mom and son. #2. What on earth I can suggest to help my husband and his son and #3. how to deal with a person like his mother. Any suggestions? .