HAVING TROUBLE WITH 7 YEAR OLD LITTLE BOY

[LITTLEONE26]

HELLO I HAVE A 7 YR OLD LITTLE BOY,THIS IS GOING TO SOUND VERY WEIRED, BUT HE LIVES RIGHT NEXT DOOR WITH HIS FATHER HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME, I HAVE NO IDEA WHY EVERYONE TELLES ME THAT IS NORMAL FOR LITTLE BOYS I SEE HIM EVERYDAY AND HE STAYS THE NIGHT WITH ME BUT HE JUST DONT WANT TO LIVE WITH ME HIS DAD LIVES WITH ANOTHER WOMEN WHO HAS 3 CHILDREN FRIDAY WE GOT INTO A FIGHT BECAUSE MY LITTLE BOY CAME OVER TO MY HOUSE SAYING THAT THE LADY WAS PINCHING HIM HIS DAD WASNT HOME SO I GOT UPSET & DID SOMETHING THAT I WASNT SUPPOSED TO DO SO WE FAUGHT IN MY FRONT YARD SHE CAME OVER HERE I KNOW I HURT HER I JUST DONT KNOW HOW BAD I BLACKED OUT I GUESS WHERE I WAS REALLY UPSET AM I WRONG FOR DOING THAT I WAS JUST DEFENDING MY LITTLE BOY I HAD ALREADY TOLD HER I DIDNT WANT HER TOUCHING MY SON I WARNED HER ONCE I THOUGHT THAT WAS ENOUGH PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

[The2ofus]

Thank you so much for your comments also I did go over there and did ask exactly what happen my son was there in front of us when we were talking she denied the whole thing she is 33 years old and I am 26 she should know better than that but you know what nobody leaves this world without paying for what they do once again thanks alot your the best have a great one I have canged my username it use to be littleone26

[SWEETDARKSTORM]

well, first of all in my opinion- some ground rules need to be set.  that woman should not put her hands on your child, you should have made that crystal clear from day one.  
second-instead of reacting like you did (which trust me a mothers instinct IS to protect her child) you should have gone over there and demanded to know exactly why or what would cause your child to say such things - sounds to me like she would have denied it anyway.  And remember- she is the other mother figure in your childs life, you need to remind her of that and you need to remind or tell your ex or whatever he is that as far as her children are concerned whatever she does to hers is her business but not to be inflicting such dicipline as that on your child- i mean, what is that !  pinching!!  
my third concern is that you said your ex wasnt there.  so- what?  if he was she would not have touched your son???  these are just some of the things that i felt i had to say.  hope it helps.  and just remind your son that you love him and care for him and dont want anything bad to happen to him and that he can tell you what goes on- he needs to feel its okay.

[anxiousmomtobe?]

I think you need counselling.  You should never fight in front of your boy, just imagine how scary that was for him and for this other lady's kids as well.  Any did she really pinch your boy or was that a story because he was mad at her for some reason.

If you feel your child is in danger you should call the police, not get into a physical confrontation with an adult who is playing a substantial role in your son't life.

You must find a way to co-exist.