3 yr old that wont go to bed

[ticked]

I am not sure what I am supposed to do.  My child never wants to sleep. I dont blame her for not wanting to nap at school, but they force her to and I dont like that because when she naps there she doesnt sleep until 10:30pm at night.  latley she keeps saying she wants to sleep with me, but I cant have her sleep with me because she doesnt sleep she goofs around and is restlessor hours and I am tired.  How do I get her to sleep???? I have tried everything, i dont even think that the nanny would be able to get her down

[blondie111]

No i do understand what you are saying thanks for mentioning it.

[boosty]

please understand that i am not trying to be mean. and i understand its all the same subject, but i thought you guys started your own questions about the same subject and that still needs to be on a different post so not only you get better answers but everyone concentrates on the main persons questions. if i am wrong, then i appologize for my misunderstanding .

[blondie111]

If you have read all the post on this page we are all talking about the same issues that we are having we are not going off the subject what so ever,

[boosty]

with all respect. i swear i dont mean to be rude. specially to blondie ,laura and some others. i want to remind you all that you can start your own post for your own questions because this way, youre taking the space and the attention off the person who is originally asking the question on this post and is seeking answers. thank you and please dont take my comment the wrong way.

[dreamangl105]

I need help. I am a single mom and I still live with my parents.  My son is almost 4 and he wont go to bed until 12 or even later.  I feel like I am at my wits end and I have tried just about everything from cutting out the sweets after 6 to eliminating naps all together. Even if I turn off all the lights in the house he still doesn't care and he is very active during the day as well.  He knows that he can get away with many things with his grandma and I can't do it anymore.  I'm currently a student and I work part time so I also need to sleep.  Nothing seems to be working he will fight me and then both of us get frustrated.  I dont know what to do so if anyone can help I would love your ideas

[blondie111]

That is a great idea, i will try that tonight, thanks a million,