4 1/4 refusing to have BM in potty

[Julie16]

My 4 1/2 son is refusing to use the toilet for his bowel movements. We have talked to his Occupational Therapist, Pediatrician and have tried every technique without luck. He cries and becomes very upset when we ask him to sit on the potty. He is completely trainined for urinating - even at night. What should be our next steps to get him trained?

[mom_in_need_of_help]

i am having the same problem with my 2 year old daughter she has been trained for 2months now night and day but when she feels that she has to bm she runs around the house holding her bum trying to keep it in and screams she doesn't have to go and she (this is the weird part)doesn't want to see it??? my oldest was a sinch so im lost with how to tackel this one but she is holding it in till she has dirreha which makes it worse for me and mainly her as she is scaring herself from going. it now takes her a full day to
BM and thats a full day with two kids that i don't have :(:( any help????

[girlinwayside]

I am having these same issues with my daughter - she was 4 in December- I am at a total loss as what to do.  It has already cost her preschool and Im scared its also going to keep her from being able to attend pre-k.