my 6 year old son refuses to go for a poo. instead he holds it and constantly asks for us to clean his bum. we give him laxetive to help him go but he still wont. he holds it for as long as he can and does little bits in his pants.he has been to the g p and he gave us more laxetive. we are at our whits end please some one help, he is waking with stomach ache in the night and this is heart breaking to see him in pain. he just will not do it he just holds it and holds it. very worried parents...