My 7 year old son has a problem pooping daily and I struggle to get him in the bathroom. Eversince he was potty trained he's had accident , he poops his underpants, I asked his pediatrician and he said not to worry just to up his fluid intake. Nothing has worked my son poops so big it clogs the toilet . Unfortunatly he smells when he poopshis pants and kids in school are brutal , my heart is on so much pain! I've tried rewards, money , candy, punishments and so on but nothing works. I will sit there with him until he poops but it's rare when there's success. He us a very smart boy who and is considered gifted, n such a sweetheart, but he us extremely insecure and a push over. So yesterday he came out of the room crying saying that his head hurt , that his thoughts hurt him , I had never seen my child like that in so much pain , it seemed like an anxiety attact, but he mentioned he wanted to hurt the kids that bully him, but he really doesnt want to . He then asked if i can take him to a doctor to fix his head. Iam torn and lost, please help me ! I know him not pooping normally has a big role in this situation , i just want my boy to be confident and happy and ofcourse happy. I always ask if anyone touches him in his private parts and he denies it he says its only his peers that treat him bad . What do i do?