I AM AT A LOSS!! A HAVE A BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING SON THAT I ADORE. . . BUT HE HAS SOME VERY SERIOUS AND CONCERNING ISSUES THAT I CAN NOT GET TO THE BOTTOM OF. . . THOUSAND OF DOLLARS LATER!! ALEX IS SWEET AND LOVING AT HOME AND HAS NORMAL LITTLE DEFIANCE ISSUES THAT KIDS DO. HE DOES HIS CHORES, LOVES HIS DOG, LOVES US. . . BUT WHEN HE IS AWAY FROM HOME. . . ALL HECK BREAKS LOOSE!!! IN SCHOOL, AND AFTER SCHOOL AND ON THE BUS. . . HE WILL KICK, HIT, BITE, SPIT, THROW ANYTHING HE CAN GET HIS HANDS ON (INCLUDING LITTLE CHAIRS) PUSH, CURSE, SAY MEAN THINGS.. . . YOU NAME IT, HE'S DONE IT! :( DURRING THE SUMMER HE VISITS MY FATHER IN MONTANA, WHILE THERE HE HAS SAID SOME VERY DISTURBING THINGS. 1) (WHEN TALKING TO MY SISTER. . . IN A VERY CALM AND SWEET VOICE SAID) "IF I KILLED GRANDMA AND GRANDPA, WOULD THAT MEAN IT WOULD BE JUST YOU AND ME?" 2) THEY WERE IN A RESTAURANT AND MY SISTER TOLD HIM TO STOP PLAYING WITH THE ICE CUBES. . .HE PICKED UP A FORK AND SAID "I COULD STAB YOU IN THE FACE WITH THIS" 3) "I WOULD RATHER DIE, THAN GO BACK TO SCHOOL (THIS ONE HE WAS ACTUALLY THROWING A LITTLE FIT ON) 4) WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF WE CUT THE DOGS TOUNGE OFF"
SCARY STUFF!!!! WHAT THE HECK!!
PRIOR TO THIS LAST YEAR, ALEX WAS PRETTY EVEN KEAL, AND HAPPY. HOWEVER, THERE WERE A FEW WIERD COMMENTS HE HAD MADE WHEN HE WAS 3. LIKE HE WAS TALKING TO THE PUPPY "I WISH YOU WOULD DIE SO YOU COULD GO TO HEAVEN WITH MY NANA" (THIS WAS AFTER HIS GRANDMA DIED") HE WOULD ALSO THROW TEMPER TANTRUMS (RARELY)
HE HAS EXPERIENCED SOME TRUAMATIZING THINGS IN HIS SHORT LITTLE LIFE, SUCH AS THE ABSENCE OF HIS FATHER SINCE LAST YEAR, MOVING OUT OF STATE, HAVING TO START SCHOOL.
WE HAVE BEEN TO COUNTLESS PSYCHOLOGIST, AND PSYCHIATRIST TRYING TO GET ANSWERS. . . BUT NO TWO DOCTORS WILL GIVE ME THE SAME DIAGNOSIS, OR EVEN A CONFIRMED DIAGNOSIS AT THAT. HE WAS ON TENNEX, WHICH SEEMED TO HELP A LITTLE. . . BUT MY FATHER TOOK HIM OFF OF IT WHEN HE WENT UP THERE.
HOW DO I FIGURE OUT WHAT IS REALLY WRONG WITH HIM? FOR ALL I KNOW HE IS ALLERGIC TO SOMETHING, OR IS LACKING SOMETHING IN HIS DIET. . . BUT HOW DO I EVEN FIGURE THAT OUT? IF ANYONE HAS BEEN DOWN THIS ROAD, PLEASE HELP! I WOULD GREATLY APPRICIATE IT !!! THANK YOU IN ADVANCE.
HE IS FAR BEYOND HIS OWN GRADE LEVEL, AND THE SCHOOL IS WANTING TO TEST HIS IQ.