hi, at the moment im going threw this stereotype emo stage, well saying that its nearly over, but i relized that the self-harming that i was doing to myself was like wrong, and i started to listen to emo music, but can someone explain to me why people get into these stereotype's and some people take longer to get out of it then other's? because i've been an emo stereotype for about just over a year now and im going onto the punk stage, and i feel like an outcast from everyone else, because all my old friend's are normal and some are stereotype chav's, also why cant people except what other people choose to be, as in "emo" they pick on people who look like emo's and say they cutt themselve's, because im over that stage now, and ive had people telling me to go cut myself, but why do they do it because we're different? everyone is different, most people go threw stages like goth, emo and punk at different time's some people go threw it earlier right?.