I am a single mother of an 8-year-old daughter. From day one, she was extremely attached to me. I co-slept with her because I was breastfeeding and I remember, even being a newborn, she was able to scoot herself to my side every night. We have been through some traumatic things together. My mother, who was her best friend, died when she was only 4-years-old and this was very hard on her for several years. If I was even 5 minutes late in picking her up from daycare, she'd have a panic attack of sorts, thinking I had died. During the time she was dealing with this, I was in a short-lived abusive marriage. My daughter was in the room when my ex-husband came in and attacked me in front of her. She was 5. We come from a very small family--I only have 2 living sisters. Her Dad has nothing to do with her and has only seen her a handful of times in her life. I have a small circle of friends, all of whom are single parents as well and we don't see one another often, so most of the time, all she has is me to talk to, play with, depend on . My daughter has no problem making friends, although she is very shy. For the past week, she has been staying with a friend of mine and her husband a few hours away . She calls me several times a day bawling her eyes out because she says all she can think of is me, she misses me so much. She is having panic attacks and has to use an inhaler, she has refused to eat and has withdrawn from the friends she is staying with, but I can't pick up and leave due to my work schedule.. Is this normal behavior, or is she overly attached to me? How do I correct this situation? My income is very low and limited, so I cannot get her into a lot of activities but she is socialized with the kids in the neighborhood. Should I seek counseling for her? Please help!