My son who is 8 years, 6 mos is a type 1 diabetic since age 2. He is my oldest, (others are 6, 5 and 18 mos) and is very controlling, bossy, and moody. When he feeling stress - such as during the end of the summer when school's beginning is looming, he becomes quick to tantrum, throwing things, hitting siblings, displaying extreme irrationality. Mostly stemming from his desire to control what his siblings are doing. As they have gotten older, they have recently started teasing him back a little when he starts in ("I know you are but what am I" when he says something not nice to them, even if that retort doesnt make sense). Naturally this fans the flames. What we do when these behaviors emerge is remind him of the rules he is breaking in simplistic terms, since he is sort of out of orbit when he is acting this way "We do not hit. If you hit you must sit in timeout." We put him in time out - which 70 percent of the time, works to arrest the tantrum - but if he is really out of his mind, he wont go. Then we give him to the count of three to choose to go sit. If that doesnt work, we put him in his room. When the tantrum ends, he is usually in tears. He words during the tantrum are so prickly and angry - that its easy to forget that he is tantrumming because he is hurting inside, but the teary episode afterwards usually reveal what was bugging him. How can I help him to verbalize and seek help BEFORE he gets to the point of throwing things, yelling, hitting? His blood sugar DOES affect his moods, but sometimes his lack of control occurs at times when his blood sugar is perfectly fine. Also, during times when we are in a routine where he knows what to expect and there is nothing new looming on the horizon, he has made enormous improvements in his self control. Thanks so much!