I have 2 sons, my oldest is 4. We've always been close. He has recently started with some behavior that is both troubling and saddening to me. He doesn't want anything to do with me, because he says he hates girls. He tells me he hates me, and yells at me. He tells me he loves his Daddy more than me. Half the time he won't even let me hug or hold him or sit on my lap. I've tried EVERYTHING, responding, not responding and nothing seems to work. Quite often I find myself having to leave the room to go into the bathroom to cry over the very hurtful things he says to me. He will get upset over something and say he hates everything and everyone or he'll say that everyone hates him and similar things. He will get mad over something or when he gets in trouble he will hit himself in the face. He will lash out and hit his 17 month old brother or me or his Daddy or his Papaw or throw something at us. When I try to get him to sit with me or something he'll say HULK SMASH and try to fight me so I just say forget it and leave him alone since he doesn't want me to love on him. He used to tell me he loved me all the time, he would tell me I was his best friend and we spent a lot of time playing together now he doesn't want me to play with him, because I'm a girl and he hates me. What do I do? I'm so lost and confused and upset. Should I take him to see a doctor? He's very smart this is his first year of preschool and he's been moved up to Kindergarten work and I work with him at home, one of the few things he still enjoys doing with me is doing workbooks and writing his name. He has no problems at school, no bad behavior or anything. I just want my little guy back, I miss our quality time together!