My 5 year old kissed a boy at school...twice, and now......

[cjchaney]

Ok, earlier in the school year, my daughter was caught kissing a boy on the playground. A note was sent home for me to sign, and the teachers spoke seperately with my daughter and the little boy. Of course, my husband and I had a conversation with her on the subject later that day... Later in the school year, it happened again with the same boy. I spoke to her again and requested for the school to separate the boy from my daughter. Just now, I received ANOTHER call from the school...this time she was caught on the playground with her shirt up. The boy was touching her chest. WHAT DO I DO????

[bigblues101]

what did she say about the teachers and if its somthing thats going to far you should sue the school for this.

[mommi17]

Im not sure i agree with the whole thing bout showing them what can happen. Because maybe she adores babies n would want 1 not knowing how much wrk it really is. Im saying this because i wantd a baby since i was 12. i thought they wer so cute n loved being around 1. I didnt lose my virginity til i was 15 but i got pregnant and had a baby by the time i was 16. and at the time i didnt care i was excited to be pregnant because i always wantd a baby...now i regret not waiting. So i think if the talks arent workn then mayb you need to punish her. Some children need to be scared of doing something. I showed my chest 2 a boy on accident while trying to get money out of my lil training bra wen i was 5/6 and i didnt know my mom saw it but she called me in the house and startd yelling at me, she was pissed. But i was always scared 2 show or accidently let a boy see my chest ever again

[cjchaney]

Thank you.. after she came home from school, she told me the WHOLE story which made me even more sick to my stomach......now I'm wondering what those teachers were doing the whole time this was going on! The class is only 20 kids.

[mommiesadie2]

Well the first thing is stop panicking.lol I hate to say but it is part of life. Now you need to understand that kids of this day & age learn & do things we NEVER would have. They see stuff on TV & read in books. The best thing to do is sit her down & have the BIG TALK with her but in a way that you don't revel everything. Just let her know that those things are for older people & they lead to having babies.Tell her that it's not safe to do things like that because other people may think she is ready for adulthood & hurt her. Tell her small stories of how kids get hurt by starting to soon. I toke my 4 girls to the teen motherhood center & showed them what would happen it they did. I found my 5 year old in bed with her best friend that was a boy & toke them both to the high school & showed them the girls that were to pregnant to have a good life. Just never underestimate what she knows or what her friends know!! To many kids now days know more than we do!!