For the last 2 and half to 3 years my daughter, who is now 9 has had issues with having accidents. She has several accidents a day with BM. It started around the time I got pregnant with my youngest, so we just assumed it was due to trying to deal with that, but it just kept continuing. Now years later, we have tried everything. We have taken her to a family doctor who ran a few tests (for parasites, blood in her BM, etc.) When nothing came of that he recommended a pediatric gasternologist (he is suppose to be the best here in Tucson). We went to see him, followed his order to a t and tried to help her as much as possible. Last month he said that he doesn't need to see her because she is doing much better. Which is not the case at all, and I let him know how I felt. I have yet to see any improvement. We done everything he has said, enemas, laxitives, stool softners, fiber, diet. I have to admit, my husband does get frustrated at times, my husband tells her a lot to stop being so lazy. I dont know if thats really the case at all or if she truly cant feel the urge. I was confiding to a close friend about this and she said it sounds like she could have something called Encopresis. I have researched it a little and feel that is a good possiblity. I asked our family doctor about it, and he refered me to the same doctor. It's just a continous circle with no hope in sight. I dont know what else to do. Sometimes I feel so sorry for my daughter because this can't be easy for her. She has accidents at school, and she smells bad. We send extra clothes and have talked to her principal and teacher. My fear is that it will never end and what kind of life will my daughter have. Please if you know where I can get help for my daughter, let me know.