My husband got custody of his nephew when he was four. We started dating when he was six. We recently moved in together and got married he is now seven- 2ng grade. His nephew has took to me very well and I can tell he loves me, and loves having me around. We are now expecting a new baby boy, i'm 6mos. pregnant. He has been acting up in shcool which is not like him. I also notice him competing with me for my husbands attention. We understand that he was used to it being only him and my husband, and I think my husband is his best friend (as he is the only child in the home). This transition must be hard for him, but his behavior in school is very unacceptable. Besides including him in the pregnancy, we have explained to him how important he is to us, and how we need him now more than ever to be a big brother and help us. Not only do we discipline him when he doesnt behave in school, we also explain to him why he is being disciplined. HE IS STILL HAVING BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS IN SCHOOL (wont follow directions, gets too excited and cant focus on the task at hand). WE NEED A "REAL" SOLUTION. NOT JUST WHAT SOUNDS GOOD.